Rule No.2: Think of it like a first-date negotiation.
Before that "Lost" fanatic tries to put his hand down your blouse "metaphorically," remind him to ask if it's OK first. In other words, before he has a chance to bring up Jack's recent capture, tell him you'd like to talk things out a bit: You've only seen half of Season One, and you don't want him to spoil the $100 you've invested in downloading episodes from iTunes. Suggest he ask you, "Does this make you feel comfortable? What about this? I'm enjoying this, are you?" Find something that feels good—for both of you! It's a very interesting island full of all sorts of goings-on.
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